Brad Mathias
Brad posted this on the Assembly Bulletin Board in February, 2003.
This is his perspective as an AK (Assembly Kid), whose parents, Dr.
Gerald and Marilyn Mathias, were workers. For further detail about the
Tuscola Assembly, see
Brinda M.'s account.
In broad general strokes this is my summary of what happened in
Tuscola.
The Progression of Events
I know for
a fact, that my father was removed from leadership in the late
70's or early 80's for standing up to George Geftakys in the area of
"finding the Lord's will" individually.
I remember my father
calling GG in a fit of anger over David Geftakys' treatment of his
wife, Judy ( who
lived with us at the House of Promise). GG promised to deal with it, and
then David & Judy moved to St. Louis.
Later....I know Betty and
George turned my mother against my father to keep him in line. It
worked only for a little while.
By 1988, the old issues revived and
others were tired of it, too. Without presuming to go into too many
details, I know the basic issues were autonomy of leadership, and the real
friendships and respect among the leading families of the Tuscola
Assembly. Denny Fredrick, Jim M., my father, Gerald M., and Mike Houk, Dr. Bob
Middleton and several others would not stand with George's slander and
manipulation of the others. Their individual knowledge of each others
genuine faith destroyed the innuendo's of the Assembly rumor mill.
This growing awareness was arrived at simultaneously by each family.
The initial one to leave, I believe, was my father, then Jim and
Brinda M., and
so on, until within about a month's time the Assembly in Tuscola was
wiped out. I don't recall any organized movement of the
"rebels" to leave, rather a similar burden and freedom to
leave individually for their own reasons.
I am sure there are many details, including friction with the Workers
and the youth outreaches, dating and ministry content, doctrine and
insecure leading brothers. But overall I think many had gotten tired,
disillusioned and worn out by GG. One little push was all it took for
many to pack up and move on.
Personal Experiences
My personal experiences were varied over a long period of time.
I remember working in David Geftakys' garden in Fullerton after summer school lectures and
receiving my
fair share of his abuse, anger and physical punishment for not weeding
his chive perfectly, or keeping the rows straight.
I remember hearing GG
berate the leading brothers over the phone when I was sleeping in the
room underneath his office at night. I distinctly remember GG on the
phone with Cecil Smith (1985-86) railing
against my father and Jim M., explaining that they were controlling and weak
men. This
really bothered me and I never told anyone but Lee Irons about it (who
was my roommate there).
Later, in May, 1988, when I was trying to decide whether or not
to stay in the assembly after my family had left, Betty
encouraged a relationship with a beautiful "older" woman from
Providence, RI, whom I had met on the Mission & Training Team the year before. The obvious
nature of this manipulation to keep my allegiance to the Assembly by
offering me a beautiful bride was enough to freak me out...and it did!
I realized that to BG, it didn't matter that she was 11 years
older than me, and that I had just gotten through my first year of
college!
During the Midwest Seminar that year, two weeks after my father left the
Assembly, GG wouldn't speak with me and avoided me like the plague, although I sat on
front row and repeatedly requested to have lunch with him, or go up to
his suite and discuss my father's leaving. It took me
very little time after that weekend to realize how messed up this had
gotten and how manipulated our family had been.
My father had been
taken for a large sum of money by GG in the early 70's...something I
will let him detail, but it was a LARGE sum of money, and it
bothered me for years that no one could tell us what had been done with
it. My father has forgiven and moved on, but he has many wounds from GG
and BG. I say none of these things to grind an axe or to revive a
"root of bitterness," rather to reveal further evil actions by
a man and his organization that need to be held accountable!
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